I’m gonna be real RN: I have zero doubt that you and I have both been labeled “crazy” by someone we’ve dated in the past. Why? It’s simple. Dudes have a tendency to be, what I like to refer to as, crazy-making. But they choose not to acknowledge that and, instead, label the ladies as “crazy” even though they’re the ones being unreasonable. Here, 16 things a man might do that cause a reaction that makes a woman seem bat-shit cray.
1. You meet, he feels some type of way and wants to hang all the time, and then all of a sudden, he flips the switch, and now you’re being “needy.” Um, hi, what?
I’m sorry, but no. What happened here was the guy was in what seemed to be hot pursuit of you and then clearly saw something/someone else that he found appealing/sparkly/noncommittal/whatever, and his relationship ADD kicked in. Cut to you feeling like you did something wrong, but let me assure you: You probably did nothing wrong, he probably just wasn’t ready. And let me tell you, if a guy isn’t ready, it doesn’t matter how perfect of a person you are. It most likely isn’t going to work long-term.